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About those pesky photos  

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9/16/2021 12:48 pm
About those pesky photos


I remember in Shanghai at a bar, having people walk up to me and say: "You're RandyTeacher"! They had recognized me from my photo on various dating<b> websites. </font></b>In a way it was sort of like being a minor celebrity, the women wanting to know if I could corroborate my claims from the website, the men just amazed that I dared to show a true photo of me. My students, fellow teachers and employers I didn't worry about, I would never see them on those websites, they didn't have the gumption to go there. Now a days, people from all walks of life go to these sites but now that I'm retired I don't worry how my photo may affect my job security or how my community views me. Of course, what I'm for now has changed too, I'm now more interested in finding friendship and companionship than trying to find sex. I still enjoy sex very much but it's not the over riding need that it once was. So yes, that photo of me is really me, and I update it occasionally to show the change to grey hair and the new wrinkles added since the last time. I'm still a leery of ladies who say they are 50 but their photos show a 20 or 30 year old person. They are often either showing photos of when they were younger or as is often wont, they are scammers. I have met some of those ladies and found that they look totally different from their photos, to the point that I'm not even sure they are the same people. It's odd when I go to the pre-approved meeting spot and I don't recognize anyone from their photo that I was given and they are shy but must approach me because they recognize me. If I walk away from the meeting alone then I would be chastised later, but how can one defend oneself from not recognizing the other because the photo was wrong?

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