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feelings....  

Bradysgirl 57F  
26 posts
3/3/2018 6:20 am
feelings....

let me ask a question....how can you have sex...at our age, with not feelings whatsoever? I think we have grown up enough by now that we should have respect enough for the person we are having sexual relations with not to be using them....not to be making them another notch in the headboard, so to speak....I can't believe how many men AND women are doing this at the age we are. am I crazy? am I the only one that thinks that sex between a man and a woman should mean something? I guess I am a romantic fool, because I have always believed it.

windsjohn 73M  
798 posts
3/3/2018 7:20 am

 I disagree. I let my carnal lust take over. I don't let emotions or feelings get involved in my thinking of sex. Yes, I usually like the person I am having sex with, but I enjoy the physical feeling that cums over me and her doing it.
You get emotions involved and then you star getting jealousy and other things that can and will hinder the plain carnal physical pleasure.


Owatalife 68M
1711 posts
3/3/2018 7:21 am

 While your sentiments are noble everyone is different in so many ways where do I start. Sex like most folks in life is a complex complicated issue & one that certainly many people never learn from or alter their approach to.


Bradysgirl 57F  
3 posts
3/3/2018 7:34 am

 men have such a blatant look upon sex, I knew you wouldn't agree with me!!


thikhead 67M
Ask me for a photo
3346 posts
3/3/2018 8:36 am

 interesting conversation.

one particular hookup through here led to great sex,

but in our time together pre, post (yes, and during),

we really became affectionate with each other.

problem was, she was a bored housewife

looking to be treated sexually as nasty,

flirting with bdsm and domination.

but the more i liked her,

the harder it was for me for the focus of my attention to her

to be to act as using/abusing her primarily rather than pleasuring her

even though thats what she wanted.

i know many cross that line with varying degrees of ease,

but it wasnt comfortable for me.

to each and all of us our own, with no judgements,

but i wasnt comfortable being what she wanted me to be to her.
"well only get through this if we work together. if we dont, none of us will"


redrockrascal 66M
23580 posts
3/3/2018 3:17 pm
    Quoting Bradysgirl:
    men have such a blatant look upon sex, I knew you wouldn't agree with me!!
You should look at some of the women's profiles. Plenty of them, of all ages, wanting NSA, or quickies. If that isn't what you want put what you want in your profile.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


VelkutuVoom 55M
135 posts
3/4/2018 6:56 am

 Sex is usually better than no sex


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