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Why NSA is turn off for some women
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Why NSA is turn off for some women Ive been on this site for about a month now and I notice that a lot f men use the term NSA to convey their desire to have anonymous non committed sex. They say things like this is not s dating site, etc to somehow imply that they are not looking to be attached, You are doing yourself a disservice by doing so for several reasons. 1. You are being judgmental. A person can use this site for their enjoyment however they see fit. Some people put sex as a high priority in a relationship so for them this may be the perfect way for them to find someone who matches their freak. 2. Some people don't like to feel thrown away. If you want NSA be NSA but that doesn't mean your partner doesn't want to feel desired and important in the moment. 3. a part of intellect is knowing that you can play and be safe. The safes thng to do is play with the same person. If you have an encounter with someone and they enjoy it they may want to continue to fuck you. Not for a relationship but situationships can be nice too. If you make these small changes to your profile, Try to be open I guarantee your popu;arity will go up. Think of all the single hot people you could be missing |
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I've been here 4 years and have found that a number of women also use the term NSA to convey their desire to have anonymous non committed sex. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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There are always strings attached, there are just different kinds of strings. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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I've been on here 12 years, women do it too, they just go about it differently. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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There are always some "strings " and there's nothing wrong with that if two people are adults and can communicate what they want or don't want.
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Excellent post. Thanks for sharing. xoxo, myelin
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Well said as there are plenty of people on this site looking for a variety of options other than just mindless sex with anybody that comes along. Just stand your ground as is quite evident in what you want to get out of this place on your terms.
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I think everyone has their own interpretation of what NSA means. For me it does NOT mean One Night Stand. I merely want to be honest from the outset and signal that I am not going to marry you, no matter how well we get on. NSA does not mean that I'm interested in frequently changing sex partners and one-offs. I am much more interested in someone like a FWB, if that suits us both. Anything wrong with that?
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11/12/2017 7:02 pm |
I've stated this many times before: if you look under the Help/Contact button and click on "The purpose of MenNation.com" they actually say that this site is " a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters." So the argument that this is a sex site is invalid. Feel free to throw this little nugget back at anyone who tries to use that lame defense Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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11/13/2017 10:44 am |
We are all here for sex in one form or another... LOL Me? well I am on this site because it is the one place I can post my erotic stories without getting banned or put in Facebook jail. I enjoy sharing with others and it' all for entertainment. Welcome to blog land~! You needed one comment to move your blog from the "new blog" list to the regular list that everyone reads. Looks like you got that covered... Now if you have a moment, swing by my blog and say hello in the comments. WARNING content is rated X and will involve reading 4 letter words and references to sexual situations~! So don't come by if this doesn't interest you. And if it DOES......................... Leave a message so I will see you there. Jimmy B My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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Great post, Cocoa. Life's so much easier when you know who and what you are. For me that meant accepting that I'm the kind of person who feels connected to someone after a 2 minute conversation, so the concept of Stringless Sex is one that just misses me. But I've always been kinda L7, so what do I know. 
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you are right most do not try to get know any thing about others on here most just looking fast hookup
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Good post, words of wisdom. It's all about having some sense of proper respect.
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1 post 3/29/2019 3:03 pm |
Well said. But you have to account for the women who read "NSA" and chooses that route. Water seeks its own level of stability. I've found that some women may claim wanting more substance but when their emotions are touched they run. Others are as predatory as some men and worse. The flip side. In short, to each her/his own in the long run.
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FWB and NSA are two different things. The operative word being friend. Many disguise NSA in FWB but the reality is they are different. NSA equates to basically mindless hookups because the "strings" that are being referred to is caring, understanding, friendship, consideration etc...at least that is how some people read it. Im not saying that I am against a man wanting NSA just how putting it on their profile may be having a negative effect on their experience. Well that is if you want a woman like me.
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I have "NSA" in my profile---- "Nuts Stay Away"  ~Lotsa
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