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Blogs > EroticMusings2 > Sensual Dreamscape

Health Issues Call For A Change In Plans  

EroticMusings2 60F  
1496 posts
10/2/2021 11:08 pm
Health Issues Call For A Change In Plans

Last night I did a blog about assessment of myself. I have since deleted it because in the honest light of day I have had to face some truths.

Right now if I am honest with myself, I am too sick to be with anyone. Yes infections will clear but I have some others issues going on as well that time and tests will tell what they are, and how best to deal with. But for now, my immune system is too weak, and the person I felt was a close enough friend and FWB sadly has decided that he did not to just see me. I understand, it is asking alot, but I only put that if he met someone that he wanted to be involved with, he let me know so I could decide at that time what would be best for my health.

But he is free to choose to have no kind of commitment and I have to do what is best for me overall health wise. I cant risk getting ill because I am exposed without my knowledge to whatever. I knew getting into this, that this would be just what it is, and was never disillusioned in thinking it would be more. We had some wonderful times, which I will miss greatly.

So I am going to just be here to blog and perhaps make a few purely friends. Nothing more then that, just friends. I could use the support, and the humor.

I will still be thinking naughty thoughts and once in awhile write some erotica. You know I will be using my toys and keeping myself safe. I hate that I have to be this way, but it is what it is.

Ann
*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
spunkycumfun 64M/69F  
41171 posts
10/3/2021 2:33 am

 At least your friend had the decency to tell you. Many people in a FWB relationship don't tell when they want; they just disappear leaving you wondering for some time.
Onwards and upwards!


countryqueen1 74F

10/3/2021 8:33 am

 Spunkycumfun is right. Most just leave and you're left wondering if you should move on or wait and see if they've been silent for a reason. At least you know where you stand with him. Take care of yourself for now, there's better ahead for you


travellerabc123 54M  
Ask me for a photo
3989 posts
10/3/2021 8:57 am

 I'm here if you need a friend.
Embrace the suck


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
10/3/2021 9:35 am

 Important thing is to take care of yourselves and stay safe. Do what is right for you and you only. Blogging is safe sex all the way.


Swulf7 68M
2 posts
10/3/2021 9:45 am

 Well, fwb usually implies sna... leaving without notice seems to be the norm in such things even though the friend part should be more than that... he at least told her before his exit... but he stuck to the nsa and more than that you cannot expect


69ereatwetpussy 62M
6774 posts
10/4/2021 5:03 am

 Your health right now is more important.
Wilt this Covid and other strains around
People out there don't care
You are like you said weekend
You are target for covid-19 shot of no shot you can get it
Get better then with the right guy or gal go out and have the best sex ever. Oh I could only imagine that poor person after you get done with them xoxoxoxoox lolololol


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