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Can Bouzouki MelodieS and GallonS of WhinE... SavE A DatE... ðĪâ
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Can Bouzouki MelodieS and GallonS of WhinE... SavE A DatE... ðĪâ Her brilliant smile and those twinkling eyes had been the alluring snare. I have no CLUE what she saw in me. But there we were, anchored at a vibrant Greek bistro over on Montreal's Fairmount Street.  "I'll take the 'Seafood Pikilia' and a tiny 'Greek Salad' with a small bowl of tzatziki, on the side. Oh, and I'll have another bottle of white wine. But don't serve the meal just yet." Then, she turned to me and flashed those luminous teeth; I grinned. "You want some too? Ok â TWO bottles of white wine," she concluded. And THAT'S how our first date had evolved. I excused myself and headed towards the bathroom but veered into the kitchen. (*listen, I'm not a total asshole, but I'd had enough.*) I waved to the cooks, laid a couple of twenties on the stainless steel counter, and walked out the back door. Slipping through that dark alley, I turned towards the street and reached into my blazer for my phone. For fuck's sake! In my haste, I'd left THAT precious hardware on the leather bench seat â back at the restaurant. I stopped in my tracks and turned around. She DID have dazzling incisors and those gleaming eyeballs. But there was more whine coming; a lot more. *Ugh* Second chances rarely work â or do they? (*addendum : so what do you want me to say? that things worked out; they didn't. it was a peaceful failure. *)  ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O |
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A warm smile and sparkling eyes â are the first traits attracting me. THAT, and a quick wit. I think there's always hope for a second chance if there's some mutual attraction. ð (*if she has a nice bum, it's a bonus.*) The 'deal breakers' for me are; a conflicting political POV, and a fickle food veto. NO second chances on THOSE! ðŪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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What attracts you, and what deal-breakers blow it up? ðĪ ðŪâ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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My deal-breakers are no sense of humour, poor body hygiene and right-wing politics!
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One of the last people I was strongly attracted to, had great conversational skills. Lots of give and take, a good listener, and convincingly curious about me and what made me tick. Too often it seems like people fall into one of the other extremes - either so reticent that it's like pulling teeth to get them talking, or one of those nonstop talkers where you can't get a word in edgewise.  
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Not when they are whining my friend, be it White or Merlot....Run for your life..xoxo Deal breakers for me is no sexual chemistry or any at all , No sense of Humour and one who whines..xoxo
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Old, ugly, married, poor. I know, I know, alone for the rest of my life. ðĪĶââïļ
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My deal-breakers are no sense of humour, poor body hygiene and right-wing politics! Should I ask? Feel free to gross us out. ðŪ â â â ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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8/17/2021 2:49 pm |
My situation was different, I had a woman that walked out on me, while just 5 min on the date. I guess people have their reasons!
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One of the last people I was strongly attracted to, had great conversational skills. Lots of give and take, a good listener, and convincingly curious about me and what made me tick. Too often it seems like people fall into one of the other extremes - either so reticent that it's like pulling teeth to get them talking, or one of those nonstop talkers where you can't get a word in edgewise. So true about the art of having a conversation. I think I've been guilty of all three styles, although my preference is 'content' as opposed to silence. Don't most people fear silence, and that's why they blather? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Not when they are whining my friend, be it White or Merlot....Run for your life..xoxo Deal breakers for me is no sexual chemistry or any at all , No sense of Humour and one who whines..xoxo But can't compatibility in the bedroom be cultivated, and shared? ðĪ Can't you train and educate your lover to acquire your tastes? Or is it a lost cause?, ðŪââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yep, I can see that. Unfortunately I can see that clearly. Funny, but teeth strike me before eyes do. Although, I don't know about you, but with that BUG and masks, I was evaluating people from the bridge of the nose â up. Imagine the surprise when that mask is lifted? You make such a good point. Implants are the latest craze. As long as I don't end up looking like one of those old people jutting jaw, with the oversized teeth of a twenty year old. Hmmm... Anyway... Any loose or messed up teeth? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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My situation was different, I had a woman that walked out on me, while just 5 min on the date. I guess people have their reasons! That, is like a kick in the head. How was your psyche after THAT? ðĪ Then again, she musta had issues, and drama, and stuff she was hiding. It's all good, Isn't it better to know, in the first five minutes, rather than in the last five years? ðĪ ðââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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8/17/2021 3:54 pm |
Sounds like my last meet before the Pandammit....... She had been at the restaurant awhile before I got there, three empty's on the table..... Two more while we waited for our food. Then she toppled out of her chair, the waiter caught her! Ah..this happens often., he says! Hmmmmm, didn't see that in her profile...... What do u do, the wait staff had it handled I left $40 on the table... Having to drag them to the room kinda takes the edge off.... As I got in my truck I heard EMS turning the corner......
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Sounds like my last meet before the Pandammit....... She had been at the restaurant awhile before I got there, three empty's on the table..... Two more while we waited for our food. Then she toppled out of her chair, the waiter caught her! Ah..this happens often., he says! Hmmmmm, didn't see that in her profile...... What do u do, the wait staff had it handled I left $40 on the table... Having to drag them to the room kinda takes the edge off.... As I got in my truck I heard EMS turning the corner...... It's what it is, right? I'm sure you have fonder memories to recall, right?ðĪ Ya have to step up and say no sometimes. I hear you. ââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Old, ugly, married, poor. I know, I know, alone for the rest of my life. ðĪĶââïļ The fruit section of your grocery store and anywhere else men linger â might be your homeland. It's a numbers game. You never know, do you? Look helpless and ask for advice about how to gauge the ripeness of an avocado ðĨ. Just a thought. Just a thought... ðââð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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hahahaha you forget your phone on the bench.lol. ohoh .i'm a extremely picky eater,lol..... deal breaker is facial hair,,,drugs of any kind....bad teeth,,,,,big drinker.
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It's not a date if you don't have sex with her.
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Politics and humour are givens. Now that hygiene thingy? I've never met anyone where THAT was an issue. Should I ask? Feel free to gross us out. ðŪ â â â
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8/18/2021 4:12 am |
When you were laying out the 20s I thought you were paying them to rush the meal to the table, when I read you were leaving I literally "laughed out loud". I would never have the nerve. 
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HA on the Romans!! my deal breaker are the folks on here demanding a pic swap. i'm a chatter. not that i don't have photos.... you've read enough of my blog so you've seen them when i share them. but i will be honest and up front that i don't pic swap. and then the demands come... Sherman and i do not have the same political views. i just smile and nod.
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A manâs overall appearance will catch my attention, especially a twinkle in his eyes and an engaging smile. Turn-offs are the inability to speak engagingly & intelligently and poor manners.
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hahahaha you forget your phone on the bench.lol. ohoh .i'm a extremely picky eater,lol..... deal breaker is facial hair,,,drugs of any kind....bad teeth,,,,,big drinker. I can understand the teeth. I guess you don't like spicy food? We all have different things on our list. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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It's not a date if you don't have sex with her. If sex isn't achieved and you didn't call it a date, what do you call it? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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When you were laying out the 20s I thought you were paying them to rush the meal to the table, when I read you were leaving I literally "laughed out loud". I would never have the nerve. The second half of the date went better... sort of. lol ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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HA on the Romans!! my deal breaker are the folks on here demanding a pic swap. i'm a chatter. not that i don't have photos.... you've read enough of my blog so you've seen them when i share them. but i will be honest and up front that i don't pic swap. and then the demands come... Sherman and i do not have the same political views. i just smile and nod. Kool... I don't have the pic swap issue but I imagine it would be annoying. Yay Romans... lol ð ðŪ ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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A manâs overall appearance will catch my attention, especially a twinkle in his eyes and an engaging smile. Turn-offs are the inability to speak engagingly & intelligently and poor manners. So written emails and texts can fool you. You need a live exam. Hmmm... Is there an oral test as well? ðĪ Ever have someone fail your criteria but still manage to attract you?ðķ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Speak engagingly? So written emails and texts can fool you. You need a live exam. Hmmm... Is there an oral test as well? ðĪ Ever have someone fail your criteria but still manage to attract you?ðķ
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Smart Romans! LOL
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Smart Romans! LOL Yepper... ðâââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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8/20/2021 5:57 am |
My deal breaker, is when she's not into me, so there are times when I Abort the date. You should do more blogs, you have a way of expressing yourself.
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My deal breaker, is when she's not into me, so there are times when I Abort the date. You should do more blogs, you have a way of expressing yourself. Hey, Q... What happened to your profile pic? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I meet one guy from here and the whole entire time I was trying to have a conversation with him at the restaurant, he was on his cell phone the whole entire time. I just looked at him and I stopped talking. If I had my cell phone that night I would have called a friend to pick me up. What a jerk. He must have a good sense of humor, good kisser especially French, a nice arse My dislikes, cell phone, a small dick, not at all passionate, smoker, a Drunk I could go on and in but I will leave it at that The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness. 
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I meet one guy from here and the whole entire time I was trying to have a conversation with him at the restaurant, he was on his cell phone the whole entire time. I just looked at him and I stopped talking. If I had my cell phone that night I would have called a friend to pick me up. What a jerk. He must have a good sense of humor, good kisser especially French, a nice arse My dislikes, cell phone, a small dick, not at all passionate, smoker, a Drunk I could go on and in but I will leave it at that That's messed up and rude. I guess a second chance was out of the question. Then again, if it happens on a first date, you haven't wasted much of your time. Or had you? ðĪ There's always the NEXT one. Did you ever find out who he was talking to on that phone? Better luck next time! ðââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yeah. I gave up before we got to the finish line. If sex isn't achieved and you didn't call it a date, what do you call it? ðĪ Do that too often, people recognize that as being , "Friendzoned".
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"Hanging out", is what you'd call it. Do that too often, people recognize that as being , "Friendzoned". Thanks for the clarification! ð ðââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Facial hair? ðĪ Hmmm... I can understand the teeth. I guess you don't like spicy food? We all have different things on our list.
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For me, dealbreakers can be divided into two categories: 1) She seems like a good person and is probably quite interesting but there is no spark there. We can be friends but I'm pretty instantly aware there isn't a possibility of anything else. 2) She is not a good person and I can't spend the hour or so it will take to have a polite meal without it being too painful to contemplate.
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incorrect I like spicy food........ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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For me, dealbreakers can be divided into two categories: 1) She seems like a good person and is probably quite interesting but there is no spark there. We can be friends but I'm pretty instantly aware there isn't a possibility of anything else. 2) She is not a good person and I can't spend the hour or so it will take to have a polite meal without it being too painful to contemplate. I occasionally encounter that THIRD option. You know, the one where she's fooled me for a whole meal, we get to the after dinner drinks â and she shares with me her theory and belief that the moon landing was faked. *UGH* What a painful drive home. ðķââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Seems like the "phone" could have "saved that date" Paul?! "Big grin", and big sigh ..... The "Smiley Faces" still won't work! Like you, a "warm smile" and a sense of humor are def attractions! ..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'! (Remember if you feel like taking part in some sexy fun then click here!) Come on Some Sketch Fun And Now How About 39Me39 Watching 39You39 If you39d like that Please Comment - So if you would like - click here as well!
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Seems like the "phone" could have "saved that date" Paul?! "Big grin", and big sigh ..... The "Smiley Faces" still won't work! Like you, a "warm smile" and a sense of humor are def attractions! I cheat; I post my blogs from my phone and find the emojis THERE. Also true about a smile and a sense of humor. âð Our heat wave is over. Ugh .. In the mid twenties today. ð It's probably normal for you when things were in the high thirties here. ðĪ â ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Pay for meal and slip out the back door, interesting, did you get your phone back?
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Pay for meal and slip out the back door, interesting, did you get your phone back? That date, less so; it crashed and burned. The meal was great. You've never had a complete fail on a first date? ðĪ I'll have to plan for a better exit strategy, I guess. ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I look for humor, flirtability, [both of which can indicate some level of intelligence and chemistry to me], along with a great smile and laughing eyes.. Turn offs: no chemistry, no conversation, too pushy, bad breath. ~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~
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I look for humor, flirtability, [both of which can indicate some level of intelligence and chemistry to me], along with a great smile and laughing eyes.. Turn offs: no chemistry, no conversation, too pushy, bad breath. Laughing eyes? Can they squint through the lights? ðĪ lol ð Eee... No conversation is a bust, but I've tried to plow through â you? Now pushy... and bad breath; THAT'S not fun. Bad breath? ugh.. ðĪ How would you react to someone who'd take the lead in a polka? ðââ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yeah, ya like flirts; so do I. Laughing eyes? Can they squint through the lights? ðĪ lol ð Eee... No conversation is a bust, but I've tried to plow through â you? Now pushy... and bad breath; THAT'S not fun. Bad breath? ugh.. ðĪ How would you react to someone who'd take the lead in a polka? ðââ  As long as they don't step on my toes in the process!~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~
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If they lead...I will follow As long as they don't step on my toes in the process!We'd see just how dizzy we could get. I love that feeling when the world spins around, but all you notice is your partner's eyes. ðð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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