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A Little About Sex
A Little About Sex If you asked 25 years ago when I was studying be a biomechanical engineer and dating my husband--be what I’d be doing with my life now, I definitely would not have thought I’d be a sex and relationship coach, exposing myself in most intimate ways. Yet here I am. So how did I get here? Well, life happened. Along way, I had quite a few significant experiences – some great, some not so great – of which shaped who I am today. I reached midlife and wanted second half be better than first, so I worked hard understand and grow from these experiences. My now coaching business began as a blog that served as both cathartic journaling and public<b> service </font></b>announcement. When I first started writing, I was in a long-term marriage seeing a sex and relationship coach. I was shocked how much sex education I had missed out on and wanted share what I was learning so others struggling with sex could join a journey of self-discovery. Since then, I’ve gotten my Masters in Counseling Psychology and worked with hundreds of couples explore how deepen not just physical intimacy, but emotional intimacy as well. Because – spoiler alert – physical and emotional intimacy are deeply intertwined! Along way, my personal individual and couples therapy journey helped : Discover more about my physical and emotional needs Communicate those needs my partner in a way that’s most likely be heard Navigate disappointment when my needs aren’t met Discern what kind of life I want live moving forward Ultimately, for , this resulted in an amicable divorce and a new chapter in my life. So now, ’s time for a new chapter here. In addition my personal stories about learning to access sexual desire, a topic I am still extremely passionate about, I will be sharing personal stories about exploring emotional side of things, because this topic is equally as important and fascinating. In addition to personal stories, I’ll share lessons from my clinical practice because if hearing one person’s experience is cathartic, hearing about multiple people’s experiences is downright therapeutic. I want you to know that whatever you are experiencing, whatever challenges you are facing around physical or emotional intimacy, you are not alone. The experiences you are having are normal. And if you want, and if you want, you can learn and explore ways of having more pleasure, more intimacy and more connection. I hope this space and additional services that I offer will be a way for you get what you are looking for in love and in life. |
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