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Episode VII: TOG and The Bistro
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Episode VII: TOG and The Bistro See the first comment below... Thanks for stopping by! Mwah! {=}Busti     ~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~ |
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Gilf and I continued to meet in a dark bar in the neighborhood. When the bars and restaurants had to close, we met at my house. The weather was warming then, so Gilf and I would go for walks…with wine glasses in hand; that’s the best way I know for taking walks!! There’s an old mid-century styled clubhouse on my street that can be rented out for parties and gatherings, except now, of course. It has a landscaped retaining wall that we would sit on and talk about this new chapter in our lives. We christened it “The Bistro”. She would fill me in with tales of her conversations [online of course] with Harley Man, and I would tell her of my daily adventures on MenNation.com. I especially liked to tell her about my conversations with T.O.G. I give all my aliases aliases; the usernames have been changed to protect the not-so-innocent.  T.O.G. stands for “Torso of the Gods.” I had been on the site for about 2 weeks when he reached out to me. He is younger, much younger than I. Normally I wouldn’t have given him a second thought because of his age**, but there was just something about him. Could it be his quick-wit? Could it be his humor? Could it be his respectful tone; like a Young Buck with an Old Soul? Could it be that his profile pic looked like a frickin’ Calvin Klein ad?! Yes, to all the above!! His profile was a black and white photo that showed his torso and bearded chin and jawline… so captivating! We texted each other throughout the days, sharing tidbits about ourselves. He knew about my situation and would encourage, compliment, and humor me throughout the day. I learned about him too, [married, lack of sex, etc.]; boy, could I empathize with both sides of that coin!! I told him about Gilf and would take him with us as we went to The Bistro. Yeah, we became obsessed with the small screens like a couple of giddy teenagers. I would text him things that Gilf and I were talking about and he would chime in with his one-liners that she and I would laugh at. It was like having all three of us there. One day as I was perusing his profile [again], I saw he had a “naughty pic”. Okay, don’t laugh, but I figured those naughty pics were blocked for a reason, at least on my computer, they are…I didn’t know one could unlock them with the blink of an eye! [or is that click on an eye icon?!] Dammit! It’s that TECH thing! I clicked on his naughty pic and gasped. It was the most Perfect Penis I’d ever seen! I downloaded it. I showed it to Gilf when she came over after work. Her reaction was the same as mine. It was PP…Penis Perfection!! We laughed so hard on our walk that day, I could barely walk a straight line! I told TOG that we would dedicate a shrine in his honor…for the sake of the sacred PP. We scoured the premises for the perfect representation of the PP. We’d take a pic and send it to TOG for his “approval”. We deemed them too skinny for some; too curvy for others. Finally, we found the perfect look for the “shrine”. We set it up against an existing rock and offered up the fruit of the vine to toast the TOG. We left it there for others to pay homage; a grotto to be enjoyed; a place to find peace [or a piece?]; and rest for weary walkers. It stayed up there the whole summer, till one day, I saw our monument had been destroyed! Probably parents walking with their kids who recognized it, or maybe teenaged boys. I sent a pic of the carnage to TOG. All I got in return was an anguished “WWWHHHYYY??!!” [lol!] I’ve yet to meet TOG in person. Timing, lockdowns, work at home jobs have not worked in our favor over these months. But I keep hoping...if and when we do, it’ll be fun; it will definitely be a fun time! What about you? Do you have age limits? Anyone you’ve broken or bent your own rules for? **In the beginning, he had just made the cut. I was stopping at 35…but like that old song about the Limbo Stick, “How low can you go??”, I have since lowered my age standards. Or maybe, it’s just that there’s an exception to every rule?? I made the joking comment to Gilf one day, that I’d like to try one from every decade. Hey, we’re not getting any younger and some [ like TOG] can charm the socks and other things right off me! Stay Tuned… ~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~
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I have talked with several younger gents on here, and I think you hit the nail on the head...it's the fantasy of it all, for both ends of the spectrum! lol! So far, my adventures in real life have pretty much stayed within the confines of my own decade, or so. Besides, I wish I had the body of a 35 year old!! Thanks for the read! ~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~
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I don't have rules. I do have guidelines, but do go outside them from time to time. Case in point, my "cupid preferences" here at set to (something like) 35-70 but a few years back a 78YO lady was enough of a bait to get to me consider going outside that range. The joke between us then became "almost 80, looks 50, fucks like 40". I we were rule followers, we wouldn't even BE here. Playing With Myself You Gotta Wonder Holiday Festivities, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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I have talked with several younger gents on here, and I think you hit the nail on the head...it's the fantasy of it all, for both ends of the spectrum! lol! So far, my adventures in real life have pretty much stayed within the confines of my own decade, or so. Besides, I wish I had the body of a 35 year old!! Thanks for the read!
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"Growing old disgracefully", Now that's a T-shirt quote if ever I saw one!  ...you're kind of my hero on this site! You are honest and sexy..am following your blog...enjoying it so! Thanks so much for the read...Stay Tuned!!~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~
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I don't have rules. I do have guidelines, but do go outside them from time to time. Case in point, my "cupid preferences" here at set to (something like) 35-70 but a few years back a 78YO lady was enough of a bait to get to me consider going outside that range. The joke between us then became "almost 80, looks 50, fucks like 40". I we were rule followers, we wouldn't even BE here. Playing With Myself You Gotta Wonder Holiday Festivities, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets ~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~
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I definitely prefer when it's a mutual fantasy... and I've yet to see anything about you I'd want to change regardless of your age, and that goes for inside and out. ~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~
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I don't base anything on age, but rather CONNECTION..... I just finf connections happen close to my age
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I don't base anything on age, but rather CONNECTION..... I just finf connections happen close to my age ~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~
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Glad you two enjoyed building the shrine. I am surprised that your friend was not more appreciative of the thought and effort put forth
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any age older them me and no younger the 40 even though younger then that would be hot I feel to young. you my beauty would be a Blessing. xoxoxoxoxxo
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