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bbw 101  

redroaryz 43M
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9/17/2022 3:01 pm
bbw 101

Be as proud of her body as she is.
You’re interested in Big, Beautiful Women because of those gorgeous curves. Don’t let anyone else’s tastes keep you from treating your BBW like the treasure she is.

Don’t Make it All About Weight
While it’s amazing to support your girl and let her know that she looks great, don’t make it all about her weight and her body all the time. Remember, she’s a woman and deserves the emotional support and everything else that comes with the relationship. If you’re struggling not to focus on just her body, that’s an unhealthy relationship. Either you’re a fetishist, or you’re someone that needs to focus on what’s on the inside a little bit more.

Looking for someone to lose weight with? Move along.
Nothing is a bigger turn-off than someone who wants to change a person. If she loves the way she looks, you should too.

Support her goals.
You may have an itch to see your love looking even curvier. If she’d like that too, support her in finding that perfect curve. If she’d like to define her muscle a little bit, that’s fine too—It’s her choice, not yours.

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https://healthyframework.com/dating/advice/guide-to-dating-a-bbw/

Tips for Meeting BBW Singles
So, you’ve decided to get back out there—awesome! While we’ve shown you some really cool dating sites and places to meet singles, we wanted to go a step further to help. We want to give you some tips for BBW dating to help you succeed and find what you’re looking for.

Know What You’re Looking For
Are you looking for another curvy single or are you open to someone of any shape or size? What type of personality are you looking for? What sort of goals does your ideal man or woman have? What do they like to do? The more you can dial in on what you’re looking for, the better your online dating journey is going to be.

Take a few minutes before you begin your search to write down what your wants are and what your needs are. It’s way easier to find what you’re looking for when you know where you’re going.

Consider Giving Online Dating a Try
Online dating has come so far in the over two decades since it began! It’s helped millions of people of all shapes and sizes meet someone special. We’d encourage you to take a chance and try something new, especially if you haven’t been having much luck in other realms. You might be surprised how much it helps.

Be Confident in Who You Are
Confidence is sexy. Be confident in who you are and what makes you—you. If this is something you’re working on, great. It’s okay if it’s a work in progress. Just make sure you’re not looking for a man or a woman to make you feel good about yourself. Be happy with yourself first, and then look for someone to compliment that. If you get those out of order, you may be setting yourself up for a tough time.

Don’t Try and Mislead Anyone
It may be tempting for some people to try and mislead people (especially online) with how you look. No matter what, never do this. First, it goes against what we just talked about (being confident in who you are). Second, it’s not fair to the other person. There are plenty of single men and women out there who are going to love you for who you are. Be patient, and be who you are.

Pros of Dating a BBW
Dating a confident woman. – There’s so much societal pressure for women to be slim, muscular, and in traditional supermodel mode. We all know that there’s more than one shape that’s beautiful, and dating a woman who calls herself a BBW is a surefire way to find a woman who knows her curves are beautiful. Big, Beautiful Woman is a compliment, and she won’t waste her time with anyone who doesn’t understand that.
Know she’ll accept you for who you are, too – Women have a type, too, and she’ll know from the start whether you’re her physical type or not. Just as she’s proud of her body, she’ll likely expect that you’re proud of your own. Be yourself, and let the sparks fly.
You may find it easier to get comfortable – If you’re dating a BBW, she knows who she is. There’s no need to talk around it. While she’s not everyone’s type, she knows off the bat she’s your type, so there’s no need for an icebreaker there.
Let’s face it—she’s gorgeous! – Looks aren’t everything, but if you’re looking for BBWs to date, you like a curvy woman. There’s no need to “settle” for a skinnier woman when there are BBW stunners to catch your eye.
Challenges of Dating a BBW
BBWs are hard to find – Outside of a large city, it may be tough to find your curvy dream date living nearby. Even so, you two may not hit it off. This is where a good dating site or app comes in handy—it’s never bad to have choices.
Some people just won’t get it – Some people are so locked in to society’s expectations that some of your friends might not understand the appeal of dating a BBW. Ignore them! They’ve got their type, and you’ve got yours.
It can be hard not to fetishize – You love curvy, confident women, but it doesn’t stop there. If you want a relationship to last, make sure you want to know the woman inside the body, too.
Know she’s got plenty of suitors – Chances are you’re not the only potential date your BBW can meet. She knows she’s beautiful, and she knows there are plenty of fish in the sea. Treat her with respect or she’ll cast her fishing rod again.
BBW Statistics
Unfortunately, there aren’t a lot of publicized studies or stats about the BBW dating community or industry as a whole. That being said, we did find some statistics and trends that we do think are pertinent. These should help you get a decent idea about how the industry operates as a whole and what opportunities are out there for singles looing for BBW dating.

69% of adults in the United States are in the overweight or obese category. With roughly 166.7 million females in the U.S., that means that there are about 115.0 million women who fall into that category.
According to the most recent Census, 52% of women in the U.S. are single (not married). That means we can estimate that there are about 59.8 million BBW women in the U.S.
Based on the aggregation of recent Google Trends Data from the past 12 months, online search traffic and interest for BBW dating is most popular in the state of Nebraska. The full top-10 list is included here:
1. Nebraska
2. Illinois
3. Michigan
4. Oregon
5. Tennessee
6. North Carolina
7. Virginia
8. Ohio
9. California
10. Massachusetts
Based on a 2016 survey by the plus-sized dating app WooPlus, 71% of the women poled reported that they had been harassed about their body on regular mainstream dating apps.[post https://healthyframework.com/dating/advice/guide-to-dating-a-bbw/]

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