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Carry the Bag You Came With  

rm_PrisicaK 49F
718 posts
12/23/2015 6:25 pm
Carry the Bag You Came With


I struggle with some members because they don't want to carry the bag they came with and want to switch bags mid trip. I understand that some married men post themselves as single and that's okay but it's a very big bag to carry. I'll go further to say that some married men posted as single will agree to host to move the conversation along. Where the bags start to drag a little bit is when they suggest a hotel instead of their home because the are home. After agreeing to meet at a public place the story becomes I didn't confirm early check in so we can't go to a hotel. Then the bag drops all together and I'm expected to pick it up between the babblings about "no place to go" and sure wish we could have a little fun" . I'm supposed to pick it up by saying " we can just go to my place" or "I don't mind parking discretely somewhere where we can fool around. I don't give any quarter to these antics. Carry the bag completely, make a reservation on the credit card your wife doesn't know about and request early check in.
Same thing goes for the "I am single but I have roommates and they are home right now. Can you meet me in a parking lot around the corner from me."

love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
12/23/2015 6:45 pm

That's the best way 2 put it. If u can't be up front from the get go. Then what's like when u finally meet up. I say if they can't pay for a room or have their own place. Tell them it's their lost not urs. A sexy woman needs should always come first. Hope u have a Merry Christmas and a happy kinky new year


EnchantedViolet 59F
2795 posts
12/23/2015 6:50 pm

Don't forget all those single dads who are raising their kids and can't host... but can come to your place for sure!

EnchantedViolet... the Garden is in bloom again
Thou Shalt Not Fuck Thy Neighbor


bamaman359 64M
1624 posts
12/23/2015 6:51 pm

I am a married man n we both play together n alone, we r both straight n we love to play


eboneflame 57M
167 posts
12/23/2015 6:58 pm

I like EnchantedViolet's point. If you are raising your kids and cant host, how can you run over to somebody's place to fuck around? If you can spring for a babysitter, then why not for a hotel/motel room.

Most of the time, you make the reservation with the credit card, and you can still pay with cash. Or do what was suggested, use that card the wife/girlfriend/live-in-roommate dont know about.


Owatalife 68M
1711 posts
12/23/2015 7:22 pm

Guess you can't win for losing sometimes or so it seems.


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