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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

It's January 2nd....  

secret_lade 50F
13787 posts
1/2/2021 3:59 pm
It's January 2nd....

Two days into the new year and I've already received the 'last minute cancelled plans' !

Fantastic!

What better way to start the year off right....

Going forward, going to this kind of stuff as a sign, a red flag. The saying is true, if someone really wants to spend time with you...

They will find a way.

done investing my time in people who aren't invested in me.

It's time for a change.

citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
1/4/2021 4:19 pm

 They say a change is as good as a rest


secret_lade 50F
9227 posts
1/4/2021 1:52 am
    Quoting bustinout20202:
    Oh wow! I thought it was only me that got that! I am learning to be "backbend" flexible on this site...but only once/person!
Unfortunately, it happens to us all, men and women alike.


bustinout20202 67F  
1080 posts
1/3/2021 3:13 pm

 Oh wow! I thought it was only me that got that! I am learning to be "backbend" flexible on this site...but only once/person!
~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


topherific 61M
5209 posts
1/3/2021 10:59 am

 i got your change


secret_lade 50F
9227 posts
1/3/2021 9:25 am
    Quoting flannel_light:
    Ii was like that last year. I stopped being the only one who emails or calls. A friend on here told me that we all have a 24 hours in a day and it does not take but a few minutes to write to a special friend. Yes actions do speak louder.
Agreed!


flannel_light 62F  
4571 posts
1/3/2021 7:43 am

 Ii was like that last year. I stopped being the only one who emails or calls. A friend on here told me that we all have a 24 hours in a day and it does not take but a few minutes to write to a special friend. Yes actions do speak louder.
The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


secret_lade 50F
9227 posts
1/3/2021 5:38 am
    Quoting positively4you:
    If a man wants to be with you, he will be with you. He will find a way. Been that way forever and will continue that way. New year or not. They love to see themselves talk. Action does speak louder than words. I waste little time on “that” guy.
You're right, action does speak louder than words...


secret_lade 50F
9227 posts
1/3/2021 5:37 am
    Quoting  :
The wonderful thing about the internet is you can meet people from anywhere. Whether or not its practical or possible is another story.... I've had my fair share of crushes on the impractical and impossible.


positively4you 75F  
4605 posts
1/3/2021 4:20 am

 If a man wants to be with you, he will be with you. He will find a way. Been that way forever and will continue that way. New year or not. They love to see themselves talk. Action does speak louder than words. I waste little time on “that” guy.


secret_lade 50F
9227 posts
1/3/2021 1:24 am
    Quoting  :
Plastered to the front of a big rig... That made me chuckle. Lol. It's men who have that type of mind set that I need to be seeking out on here.


secret_lade 50F
9227 posts
1/3/2021 1:14 am
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    OMG, I know THAT person. She would ask me to go on a date and then on the day of, she would call and cancel, sometimes just hours before. . Out of 10 "planned" dates , we got together 4 times. I told her "thanks, but no more."
So frustrating, isn't it! I feel like, when that happens, we become a place holder, a plan B, a 'just in case' the ideal plan falls through.


secret_lade 50F
9227 posts
1/3/2021 1:05 am
    Quoting  :
I agree with you... The 'better offer' theory is spot on. When someone wants to spend time with you, they do find a way.... You can feel it in your gut when you're just a place holder until something better comes along.


secret_lade 50F
9227 posts
1/3/2021 12:50 am
    Quoting ProfessorNaught:
    And yet you read people at work so well.
    Whassup with that ?
I know.... I've actually given this some thought. I turn off my analytical mind when it comes to my personal life.... And, that's when I need it most.


ProfessorNaught 111M
Ask me for a photo
1406 posts
1/2/2021 10:39 pm

 And yet you read people at work so well.
Whassup with that ?


hornieryytoad 52M
Ask me for a photo
22 posts
1/2/2021 10:02 pm

 lol


mc_justmc 64M

1/2/2021 6:48 pm

 OMG, I know THAT person. She would ask me to go on a date and then on the day of, she would call and cancel, sometimes just hours before. . Out of 10 "planned" dates , we got together 4 times. I told her "thanks, but no more."


secret_lade 50F
9227 posts
1/2/2021 4:13 pm

 Fresh starts!


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