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Blogs > tamaloa_aulelei > The Excellent Blog of Tamaloa

Dating on aff  

tamaloa_aulelei 48M
59 posts
9/16/2020 11:47 am
Dating on aff

So I sent her a friend request. She didn't accept it, but she did send a msg .

This is typical of the kind of exchanges I've been having. She starts off saying she's really no where near where she said she was, and all I can do is along just be polite:

She:
Of course i can really rock your world, but i've moved back California as i'm done working here in Westland, i fly over meet you in person when we find each other amazing

Me:
I find you amazing already. You have no idea. As for you finding me amazing, well, I guess I'm just going have keep working at it.

She:
I'm glad hear that anyway what work do you do for living and what is your bad experience with the women here the site??

:
I'm a consultant. We have an office but and my partners are mostly working from home these days. We should probably just give the office because we do videoconferencing the time. I could entertain in my home, which would be more comfortable for them anyway. We can use the dining room for meetings. I've done Christmas dinner for ten.

My experience with women on MenNation.com hasn't been what I expected. I didn't think it was going be such a slog just trying get a nice girlfriend. Men outnumber women 18 one, so I can do is just get in line.

Half the women are catphishers, plus the prostitutes, plus the gays pretending be women, plus the ones who try extort if I put a face pic, plus the ones who have boyfriends or husband who are in a REALLY bad mood and send pictures of automatic weapons. Not exactly what I signed for.

Like my profile says, I'm really looking for a woman who wants keep for herself.

I want a pretty woman
Who wants fall in love
So she can fall in love
With me.

The women I've actually managed date just want a hookup and don't want get involved. One of these days I'm going find a woman who just wants a hookup and ends up changing her mind. And then I'll have a nice girlfriend.

So that's my plan. Obviously it's not working, so I could use some help. Got any ideas?

***

She hasn't responded yet. Which is probably just as well. I'm not about chase somebody I've never met thousands of miles across the country. That kind of travel doesn't make for a nice vacation.

Now if I knew she liked me and we had a pretty good history, I'd chase her around Europe and maybe even to the other side of the planet. No, really. Been there. Done that.

author51 61F
129960 posts
9/16/2020 11:15 pm

 The overwhelming ratio between men and women here is astounding and trying to find that one needle in the haystack is a daunting task..Yet it can be done when you finally click with that one who is searching for the same thing as you..Blogs here is where you do find the honest and genuine people that you can first forge a connection with and may eventually end up being that one special needle....Good post..xoxo


tamaloa_aulelei replies on 9/17/2020 3:42 am:
Thank you Joy.

tamaloa_aulelei replies on 9/18/2020 7:39 am:
Two more catphishers blocked this morning. One was using pictures of Indian model Shobhita Rana.

One more extortionist blocked, sweetcheecks48. This one is using pictures of 'influencer' Daniella Monet.

It's why I do NOT provide face pictures.

I've been cheated
Been mistreated
When will I be loved?

(Walking away, shaking his head.)

author51 61F
129960 posts
9/18/2020 11:02 am
    Quoting author51:
    The overwhelming ratio between men and women here is astounding and trying to find that one needle in the haystack is a daunting task..Yet it can be done when you finally click with that one who is searching for the same thing as you..Blogs here is where you do find the honest and genuine people that you can first forge a connection with and may eventually end up being that one special needle....Good post..xoxo
I sing that song by Linda Ronstadt at Karaoke a lot....lol. I find it very sad that there seem to be more fakes, flakes and scammers to sift through before you find the real ones..


tamaloa_aulelei replies on 9/18/2020 11:29 am:
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It's the nice people who make up for it, author51.

And I'm not about to let the other kind spoil it for me.

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